Ymir and Krista of Attack on Titan are forced into roles that don't suit them, but they find meaning and comfort in each other. Yuuri Katsuki and Victor Nikiforov of Yuri!!! on ICE are deeply committed and wholly in love, pushing each other to be their best selves both on and off the ice.
That said, there are some awesome LGBTQ+ anime couples that serve as positive representations of their respective communities. When a relationship does blossom, they often follow unhealthy dynamics that aren't reflective of real-world relationships, relying instead on yaoi and yuri tropes. Non-binary anime characters, when they show up at all, often never experience requited love. LGBTQ+ relationships in anime either come across as tender or facetious.
